Sunday, February 6, 2011

First Date Dressing

There are three extremely difficult times to choose the right clothes for the occasion: job interviews, first dates and the dreaded meeting the parents nights. This week my girlfriend Taylor tackled the perfect outfit for a first date.


First date dressing can be a toughie; you usually don't know your date well enough to predict what will be attractive to him. You want to look extra fabulous but not too over the top, stylish but not too trendy. Here are some tips on how to prepare you for that first big date.

Where to ?


Try and have a pre-date conversation and find out where you're going. Be simple and polite about asking, you don’t want to sound too bossy. Try and get a sense of the formality of the occasion. Find out if you will be walking, and if so, how far. Nothing is worse than having to trek through the dirt of a carnival or mile long festival in six inch heels. I usually will carry a pair of foldable flats in my purse just in case. After you’ve gotten the 411 on where your big night will be, you’re in the right mindset to get the perfect outfit together.

Classic Dinner Date


The little black dress, also known as the LBD, is a staple in every woman’s closet and was created to impress. It’s simple, flattering, and easy to do. If you don't have one, get one now. Add a clutch (Mary Poppin bags are always intimidating to men), pumps and a cardigan to carry and you’re all set.. What’s great is you can change up your jewelry and accessories, to add a splash of color and showcase a little bit of your personality and style. I also would consider your nicest pair of jeans and a suitable blouse and heels. You can’t go wrong with simple.

Daytime Dating

Day time dating takes the pressure off of formal dating, so if you find yourself going on a daytime date, know it’s going to be more casual. The key to day time dressing is to be neat and pulled together. My go to outfit is a white cotton sundress and flat sandals. I think it says, girly, functional and relaxed.

Sporting Events


If you’re invited out to a sporting event, the key is comfort. A t-shirt, Jeans or shorts, a hat, and a sweater. Nothing too sexy and provocative and nothing that can't be washed if you have beer spilled or you drip ketchup down your shirt.

Extra Tips


Don't Dress Too Sexy, It's tempting, but sexy has a way of turning sleazy when you least expect it. You want to dress to impress and save what’s underneath for another
fun filled night at home behind closed doors.

Always bring money with you. I’m a big believer in have men pay for me on a date. However, it is in your best interest to always have money on you in case of emergency.

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